alcoholicsfriend.com One of the most difficult things to do is love an alcoholic unconditionally. I can help you find relief from the hurt and anger you are experiencing due to having a relationship with an alcoholic. The first step in learning how to love an addict is accepting that they suffer from a disease. When they were younger they never said they wanted to grow up to be such an obnoxious person due to their relationship with alcohol. The alcoholic is a very sick person. We have to make conscious efforts when loving an alcoholic. Here are a few suggestions -Avoid arguing with them. There is no point in fighting with an alcoholic. -Stop blaming them for all of your life’s problems. -Before hanging up the phone in anger… always say goodbye. -When setting a boundary, reassure them of your love first. -Understand that your love for them is not dependant on them loving you back. -Learn how to stop focusing on them all of the time. -Practice smiling and being nice to them. In order to truly love an alcoholic, we must learn what character attributes are common among alcoholics and strive to accept these at all costs. Here are a few we need to accept: Alcoholics lie They miss appointments They use anger often They are in love with alcohol more than anything else in life They love to argue and fight They blame others for everything Finally, you cannot change an alcoholic or control their alcoholism. You best chance of loving them without conditions will be found in …
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